It's not something that realistically happens very often. Say, if the poster in question actually does this with every single one of their posts as consistent argumentation tactic of sorts and is being utterly irrelevant in many such postings, true, seems like a bad behavior. But if that's just once in a moon, specifically to paint a relevant example (which it was here, regarding matters so heavily discussed here), I don't think it's "disgusting" If you're not going to do that in your every response to me, then sure, why not, feel free to bring up any of my other posts under any of the other threads, if it's relevant. I'm in
a public space, consciously putting word out there in a public space - it's not my private space or private chat or private secret that's not allowed to reference, it's a huge difference
I think the issue is really unsolvable and ultimately boils down to people who expect long discussions and wanna say something, anything, positive or negative, but
anything goes, no stifling of freedom of speech, and people who are very easily offended or don't want to put much into words or don't want to see long discussion between some parties and they're fine with harsh stifling of freedom of speech, even if based on mere conjecture and "fickle" so it's just as likely an innocent party will be harmed/banned in the process.
Maybe we should all have badges under our posts, choose either "I tend to write lengthier responses and view a forum as a place of (sorta) academic discourse. Feel free to engage me and challenge my view point, no tabu" and "I'm easily offended and don't like any heated discussions, I view my favorite game forum as a safe space for me to relax, please don't engage me" This may sound bizarre but I suspect it would solve the problem much better than any likes, dislikes, systems of shaming, harsh moderation, emotes etc. At least in general discourse, though there is still a question of how the heck am I supposed to add something and/or disagree with the other party who keeps posting peculiar suggestions or opinions but expects just a safe space... so in theory I shouldn't engage them? Maybe we should have a rule that says I can just post "Strongly disagree! I have reasonable arguments against it but can't post more" - the end - but in order for it to be fair the OP is forbidden from engaging any of those posters any further about this matter and trying to continue their original post or paint it like they're in the right despite disagreements, otherwise they'll be punished too. Someone gets their friendly safe space and can discuss their idea with people who think alike if they want, but otherwise you're stuck with a bunch of disagreements under your post and can't even ask why or try to convince them - something in exchange for something, no? And I can avoid triggering such people who don't feel "safe" here whatever that may entail. An original ruleset/community enviroment that I think probably doesn't exist anywhere online but hey, maybe LOTRO can be the first to implement it and revolutionize the internet