decided to come back but found my server has been killed off, i belonged to a crafting guild/kinship and my friend was the leader, want to transfer to a new server just hoping he remembers me pretty sure he was a hobbit hehe, oh well gotta try at least, thanks
If you remember his name, you could make a throwaway character on each server, add that name to your friends list, and if that toon exists and it's a hobbit you can send them a mail to see if it's him. If you just check the English US servers (can't transfer from E onto the European ones) it shouldn't take too long.
i will take a look through my old paper notes haha
ok some progress i think i was in the southern defenders an Australia/NZ kinship, some notes i discovered the person i think i was after:
Tosto aka Curankang
Kendralks aka Aaranon
have other names like Naranthor, Nimueway, Alchemydawn, Fayola that may be leaders of the kinship
i think they may have all gone to Arkenstone
made a new toon there and yes some of them are there woo hoo, sadly they are offline