Originally Posted by
Jeroen4593
Thanks for the many friendly advices. (There was one very unfriendly, but it has disappeared.) This really is a very friendly forum.
I will digest and try to understand all that was written. I still have my character, so there may be a future for him after all...
I have to say, much of the gameplay is still a mystery to me, and I am not a fan of overly complex game mechanisms which for me get in the way of the story. LOTRO for me is special because it is apparently made with a lot of care. The scenery is stunning and the game is fairly true to the story from the books. They of course did a lot of side stories which are not in the books but fit very well. Many side quests are fun and you meet some interesting characters. Very well done. As said, the fighting is not my cup of tea but of course you need difficulties to overcome or else the thing gets boring. No issue with that.
As some have said, LOTRO is immense and you have a say in what you do and what you skip, according to taste. It will take you a very long time to explore everything, and that is realistic because in real life it's the same.
And sometimes you have a choice. Not so long ago, I don't remember when or where, I had a choice: do the hard fighting, or have the story presented to me (with a bit of fighting to be sure). Being given that choice I liked a lot, and I wish I could have the same with Pelargir. And I ask myself: why not? There will be others like me who would be very happy with that.
Thanks to all, an in particular to Tralfazz for his links and encouragement, and to professorcat12 for his offer to help out. I am indeed on Laurelin, and I may take you up on it, once I figure out how.