Originally Posted by
Dago_Red
Furthermore, I have personally lost three RL friends (to other games /entertainment) because eventually, we found it impossible to adventure together the way we'd imagined we could when we all signed up. We quickly began outleveling each other as some of us played constantly and some could only play on the appointed adventure nights. We tried using alts, scheduling more nights, switching to crafting endeavors, etc. None of it works for long, no matter what you do you gain tons of XP, you can't craft without gaining tons of Xp and leveling (unless someone gives you all the things you need or you are filthy rich, and even then you must be satisfied at certain skill tiers as advancing requires going out into the world on quests).
After about 3 months we were hopelessly scattered with no one at the same level and 2 of us 10-13 levels higher than the other two. I began adventuring with the lowest with a new alt, etc.... but the results were we could not effectively adventure together the way we wanted. Once someone gets "ahead" in XP there's no way to have everyone else catch up if you continue playing together. One party must somehow play more, which really means they must work at gaining XP and that sucks all the fun and wonder out of it. OR one party must play less, or cease for a time - NEITHER is good for anyone involved, including Turbine.