Welcome to LOTRO.
I would recommend one of the regular servers. LOTRO can be soloed by any of the classes. Some classes have benefits not available to other classes. What class are you thinking of playing? Recommend you try them all, playing each until about level 30.
To stop XP, you can purchase from the in game store the Stone of the Tortoise (100 LOTRO Points), equipping it in the pocket slot when you want all XP to stop.
Here is a list of links to sites, articles and guides about LOTRO.
In case you are wondering why you can not post in other forums, here is the reason:
The reason – several years ago there was a serious episode of spammers, gold sellers, and other forum lowlifes. The solution was restricting all new accounts and all in-active accounts to this forum – made clean up easy.
Keep posting your question(s) in this forum, until granted full forum access. Should happen in a couple of days.
Official explanation: “https://forums.lotro.com/forums/show...y-Post-Here”
In case the forums break the link:
</Code>https://forums.lotro.com/forums/showthread.php?645326-Why-Can-I-Only-Post-Here</code>
Again, welcome to LOTRO.
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