This is such a short sighted and silly take. Study after study shows that yes, people do identify with their avatars/ player characters in Mmorpgs.
It doesn’t matter that you say it shouldn’t be like this, it is like this for a lot of players. And it has been the subject of many research papers the last years.
It may be different (more intense) for younger people, but in general a lot of players even think their player character has the same characteristics as they do in real life.
They, quite literally, identify with their Avatar/ player character.
See for example:
https://cyberpsychology.eu/article/view/4211/3252
or:
https://digitalcommons.usf.edu/cgi/v...51&context=etd
"Van Looy et al. (2012) goes on to state that players prefer these different types of
identifications for different reasons. Some people choose to create avatars with similar identities,
because they find that online interactions are more fulfilling when they feel their avatars’
personality resembles their own (Ducheneaut, Wen, Yee, & Wadley, 2009). Lim and Reeves
(2009) noted that similarity identification decreases the psychological distance between human
players and their avatars and increases the self-relevance of the games. As such, players are
likely motivated to spend more time and more resources, both emotional and monetary, on the
development of their avatars {...}
The success of one’s avatar in the virtual world tends to be significant to the gamer,
considering that most perceive their avatars as representations or idealizations of their self-
identities".
From a different article:
“When a player receives a chance to customize their avatar, it is often found that the avatar’s identity relates to the identity of the player.
Livingstone (2015) explains how the character customization allows the player to reflect their own individuality and how the player’s and avatar’s identity can be linked together.
This can then lead to the avatar looking like the player or the player reflecting their avatar’s identity.”
https://ecampusontario.pressbooks.pu...er-and-avatar/
So, having said that, while a lot of us may roleplay a dwarf, a hobbit or an elf, especially with human characters a lot of players like their avatar to look like they do in real life.
And that has
always been possible in Lotro and other Mmorpgs.
I can quite literally pick the same hair/ skin color I have in real life, put on a pair of jeans and a modern shirt and play Lotro as me.
As I have done for years, and strangely no one has ever asked me to "justify" my existence in Lotro, let alone come up with some origins story.
But hey I'm a white woman, and most here are probably white guys, you and me never questioned whether or not our characters belonged in Middle Earth, we simply did.
While this exclusive white centered view, is NOT in accordance with anything Tolkien wrote, for example about the House of Beor.
Being able to participate (in a way) in Tolkien's story is what makes this game so interesting/ fun to a lot of people.
And sometimes it’s cool to be able to do as someone who looks like yourself in rl.
It is telling that it bothers some this much that sometimes everyone, including people that aren’t white or straight, would enjoy being able to play like themselves.
They don’t ask for something special, they just ask for that what you have been able to do for all these years.
Especially when that might in fact be exactly the core of what Tolkien wrote about.
"Tolkien demonstrates that he dislikes most of all [...] segregation of the Other, and isolation of those who are different, whether by race, nationality, culture, class, age, or gender"
From: Chance, Jane. "Tolkien and the Other: Race and Gender in Middle-Earth." Tolkien's Modern Middle Ages. Ed. Jane Chance and Alfred K. Siewers. New York: Palgrave, 2005
Maybe it does bother you, but tbh, it is exactly none of your business how people look at, or experience their Avatar/ player character.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure you disagree with all this, or even think that people shouldn’t identify with their player character,
but who are you to impose your thinking or your extremely limited views about what Tolkien wrote about, upon others?