Shand, just so you know why music right now is considered one of the worst things you can do socially: when you group a lot, as one typically does at kinship events, you need to turn down all the game sounds so you can hear each other over voice chat. Once you turn all the sliders down, except voice chat, and turn up your headphones, any sound at full volume hurts. The skirmish horns, and player music, are the two things not responding to the volume sliders (I think skirmish horns are still not responding, I don't run them anymore). I run all my game sounds at 5%, so player music is 20x too loud for me.

So if the fit takes you again to play, make sure others can get away from you and still do their business.

But yeah, it was you.