I don't think that people who dislike their character being forced into certain behaviour by someone else are a minority.
An important rule in any roleplaying game is that you can do pretty much everything you want except force a player into certain behavior. A character is the only thing the player has full control of.

This will annoy some people more then others, but if you would ask around I think no one will say they enjoy seeing their character waving a white flag surrendering to another player (unless the action was initiated by the player himself). At the best they just don't care.