I lead some events on the Riddermark server that I think you'd be interested in. I've been trying for a few months to get a large rp/play event going, but other kin leaders and officers don't get back to me on possible numbers and suggestions. If you are willing to help, my forum name is the same as my main. Lets get it going.
I host a book club most Thursday evenings behind TR, it's open to any freep. We have wine & cheese tastings, killing you, lively discourses on the book of the week,killing you, along with interpretative dance demonstrations, also killing you. Come check it out, you'll find it quite refined despite taking place in a video game, then I kill you.