I live rural so the likelihood of any 'stealing' is highly unlikely, although never 100% discounted. My 'wireless' connection is more referring to my main microwave (Wimax)signal that I receive from a tower 20 miles away and my 'radio' receives this signal, which can be impeded by various things such as line of sight problems, excessive humidity in the air, etc. Signal quality is not the greatest and there is the question of how much packet loss I get. Although correlation does not equal causation, the last two times I have been on LOTRO, my ISP says I have used large amounts of data whereas my computer and router do not back this up. This is why I was wondering about whether my ISP might actually be accurate with information from the game being sent and resent, but with me not actually receiving a good portion of this data. Again, I am no expert, but the basics have been pretty much eliminated with respect to other users/computers/etc.
Thanks.