The ones I've looked into appear to have died or gone dormant over the last few months. I'll join one of the large active kins if I need to but I usually prefer a somewhat more selective kin, ideally with all or almost all adult membership.
Though I must add that my experiences with people in the larger kins has been quite good so far - this server seems much better than most US servers I've tried in that regard which is why I'm planning on staying here (at least as long as Warner Brothers allows - I don't know which servers they are thinking of shutting down).
If interested either reply or send a PM (I know posts like this tend not to get replies).