Originally Posted by
Arnenna
This thread has so much poisonous flaming it's just sullied them (for me). If you genuinely are interested in knowing why, then I will tell you why. Please accept my apologies in advance for the lenght of the post.
Maybe it's just that I know quite a bit about charity work - especially that which involves travelling for long periods, and having to rely on liaison with others, limited resources, and sometimes unreliable services. That makes me think (and it's just my own view), that all may not be as simple and dry cut as some folk make out in here. I can understand the anger from some (although I'm not angry), I can understand the disappointment too. I can to a degree even understand why some folk are pointing a sharp stick at Sapience.
What I don't get, in any shape or form, is why people are actively putting down a charity organisation, for something beyond their control. Extralife is not just a LOTRO thing, it's all over the place, with people raising money from a lot of different avenues. I'm sure they have a lot more important things to do than answer emails about something they have nothing to do with. Then there is all nasty insinuations flying about how the money may not actually get to the charity, and then further to the children. That, in my opinion is just unacceptable behaviour, and touching on libelous. Turbine would be wise to monitor it very closely for hosting it.
I really don't mind or care if anyone donated for the rewards - that is their prerogative. They donated, that's all that matters. And as they were promised something, yes, I do believe they should get it. I really don't disbelieve that there are some people that donated regardless of rewards either. I donate to quite a few causes, money and time (and on occasion, blood, sweat and tears), and have done for a very long time. Incentives or not, makes no difference to me.
Charity is something I hold very close to me heart. 80% of the time, I donate to animal charity, with the other 20% going to children. Extralife appealed to me, because of what it does. It helps dying children and their families to get that little bit of extra from the life that is left. How good is that? That is awesome. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like to be in a position like that, I'm glad I don't have to, and hope I never have to. The fact every penny counts towards helping, is a big thing for me.
Ok, so there was a little incentive involved - some codes. I would have donated regardless as I saw it on the forums here, but the incentives were a nice bonus for many I am sure. I had visions of mounting a steed in game at some point and thinking to myself, I wonder which child I may have helped smile. Not anymore though, now all I will think of is how some idiot decided that - that child (or other children like it), should go without, because he has a grudge over a virtual pony and a snow bear. His venomous words have been spoken and cannot be unspoken, the message - Do not donate to this scam organisation (which is what he has implied) is out there. How many children will not smile next year because of it? Will he sleep? He will as long as he gets his pony and bear I'm sure. Will I sleep? No I probably won't, because I will be wondering how many children maybe won't smile next year because of a pony or bear.
I don't care if Sapience had promised me the world wrapped in gold leaf. If he didn't deliver, I wouldn't declare war on the children and discourage people from giving to them again because of it.
As for the question do I feel the same when people take a pop at LOTRO. no, I don't. LOTRO is a game, a game I love yes, but just a game. It is not a dying child.