Apart from the fact that it is hard to find an end and a beginning within the sentences of the original poster - when I read this, I remembered a discussion that we had in this forum just recently. Maybe it was too hidden in the vast number of new threads...
https://www.lotro.com/forums/showthr...-myth-debunked
The odd thing is, it went exactly the other way around; the specific person in the world chat did not want to sell an expansion code, but buy it. Are these incidents related? If yes, you've received a lot of counter advice for sure, because such an offer will just call for scammers. I don't understand why you would not take these warnings for serious.
See, even if we're an honest group, which makes up 9.99% of the players total, we cannot prevent the 0.01% of bad apples, that each group of people will have. They come in, look around, and will take what they can get, even before we have noticed that they are already there. The only way to deal with them (as we don't have the powers that a GM has) will be: 1.be wary, 2.don't make trades that cannot be done via Cash on Delivery. Actually, I give away things for free (eg drops from old instances), when I don't need them; but this is a decision on my side. I would never send money/gold in advance to someone I do not know.
And be assured that the GMs have examined the case and banned the scammer instantly. They just don't tell it; because this is common practice in MMO's that bans are not discussed whatsoever. The problem is: If they refund one player that got scammed, they open a Pandora's Box, with people of all kinds wanting their money back, be it for a sound reason, or not; and the GMs would have to examine each case separately, with a good deal of these cases being hard to resolve, because each of the two sides had done something wrong in the process.
Imagine what would happen, if they complied: Some players might even complain over a petty sum of a few silver. Where should the GMs draw the line? In which cases should they act, and when not? Which players will then feel unjustly treated? How much work will this cause, as there will always be some who won't be content, and start to appeal? And will this make the players in general reckless or careless, as they can be sure that in case something is going wrong, they can reclaim their expenses? Will they expect and demand that they from now on will be nannied?
As hard as it may sound, but the GMs are forced to leave you out in the cold. If you went to a civil court and demanded your money back, the judge would probably tell you that you are a grown up person which knows how the world works, and has the faculty of judgement to tell when something is probably honest, and when not; and that you gave your money away willingly. And he will tell you that you should turn to the law enforcement authorities with your request, if you want this scammer to be dealt with. A game master isn't the police. He is more the person that stands in front of a shop and says, okay, there is a pickpocket in there which got identiied, we'll inform the police in order to get him arrested, and in court we will testify. They can also keep this person from entering the shop again (aka ban them).
But the shop cannot take the money from the thief, and hand it over to the person which got pickpocketed. Only the law enforcement judge can decide that the thief will have to compensate. It is not the job of the shop.
Sorry to tell you this, but this is how life goes.
Polymachos
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