No, mate, in my experience most people don't give a damn about that stuff. Just because some people float around in a bubble doesn't mean we all do. You can see perfectly well from all the fuss there's been about RoP that there are way more LOTR fans who like it the way it is than anyone had counted on. When something's purposely archaic people get that and don't expect it to look like the modern world.
Projecting overtly modern values onto past times always rings false. You might want to do that with a stage-play or an art-house film to make a point by contrast but that's niche and the mass-market audience is a wholly different matter,