The absolute LAST thing I had in mind was something homophobic when I used the word "graaaaay"!!!!!!! I extended the spelling for emphasis because that's how the entire landscape struck me -as in the color! How about "greeeeeey"? I can't believe someone actually leaped (catapulted themselves) to that conclusion. That was a ridiculous stretch and not remotely what my intention was. In fact, I'm offended someone would try to lable me as a homophobe. Thanks for that and Merry Yule to you, too! Just for the record, I don't make judgements about people or remark about people on the basis of their race, creed, skin color, ethnicity, gender preferences, etc. I certainly wouldn't post something as nasty as that on a public forum.
To the rest of you who responded, thanks for your very interesting opinions on the subject. I appreciate your time and thoughtfulnesss. I was also interested to hear that there are actually Xmas trees and wreaths available somewhere. Unfortunately, I am too young to have a house yet, so again, maybe next year? As for the alternative locations for festival, I will look into that. Maybe that is what I am pining for. Anyway, thanks for the responses and the information. I really appreciate it.