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FoxFire
Let's not kid ourselves here. LotRO is NOT the real world. It is a fantasy role playing game in a virtual world. Turbine has no business weighing in on whatever social controversies are occurring in the real world.
You are making the case that Turbine HAS, in fact, weighed in on that.
Where-in they do not put lore based, or other unwarranted restrictions on ANY of the tools they provide to players (such as those previously mentioned), they are, in this one case, explicitly refusing to put in a tool for the players (that was previously in the game), because certain players demand that there be hard-coded restrictions placed on it regarding race and gender. (And unlike other tools, this is one that such players never need to see to get irate over, unless they actively check players biographies, and then the race and gender of a listed spouse).
That is a wrong headed policy. Turbine should not be deciding what they should or should not put in the game because some players might disapprove of how other players use it.
If that is their fundamental reasoning (or even just a small part of their reasoning) for leaving out this mechanic, THEN they are absolutely weighing in ON the side of those who want to restrict what others can do (be it either on lore grounds or someone's real world beliefs).
That is NOT a neutral position.
By saying "we can't allow people to make their own choices on how to use a marriage tool in game, therefore we won't allow anyone to use that tool", they are making a positive statement about who's overriding needs are being met. Not the majority of players who don't mind how other players use it, but the needs of those who'd rather go without the tool period rather than live and game with the knowledge that some players have used it to form unions they personally disapprove of.
That is very much like in the real world where a small hand-full of school districts, given public school rules that say when you permit extra-curricular clubs to meet on school grounds after school, you must also permit gay-straight student alliance clubs to meet after school, have tried to circumvent those rules by taking away the ability for ANY extra-curricular clubs to meet on school grounds. I say 'tried', because generally such attempts have been seen as the attempts to discriminate that they are, and been beaten back.
Turbine is, in essence, being those school districts. "We, or some of our players, don't want other players to be engaging in interracial or same-gender marriages in game, so therefore NOBODY gets to utilize a tool that we originally coded for and had in place."
And like those school districts which had existing extra-curricular after-school clubs, so too did LotRO have marriage. And like those schools, rather than be inclusive to all clubs, including those some people disliked, they took away the ability for any club to meet, Turbine has taken away the ability for anyone to get married. Satisfying ONLY those who would rather see NO clubs, or NO marriage, rather than let people be.
So therefore, I implore Turbine to re-examine their policy for including social and role-playing tools (as outlined by Berephon), to be sure that it is being evenly applied to all such tools, and all decisions on whether or not to include a tool, without exception.
And just remember, we ARE supposed to be the Free Peoples of Middle-earth.