Get Honour, Valour, Discipline, Fidelity.
Drop Zeal, Charity, Compassion, Innocence.
Off the top of my head I think I run: Tolerance, Charity, Innocence, Compassion, and Zeal on most my toons. I'll use Fidelity instead of Tolerance on my non-agi classes.
Charity, Innocence, and Compassion are some of the best virtues for pvp-so no they are not big mistakes
If you're looking for pve'ing virtues, other ones might not be bad to put over those 3. I'm too lazy to switch virtues so I just leave mine as they are.