Originally Posted by
Datheor
That would be Star Trek Online. Now I can speak for myself (and my fellow fleet members to some extent) but we voted with our feet and wallets. This was when the fleet starbases came out. That was enough for us. The store had become a very "in your face" thing, even as a lifer there. Trust me, after the 230th announcement of "Capt. Cruchstarz has won a Galor class ship!" while doing you 10th run through one of the 5 mission you can do to earn dilithium. (Essential for everything. Imagine having to grind nodes for weeks, as a kin, to build the most basic kinhouse! Then, after that, grinding even more to buy the gear in the shops in the house) I was able to talk many of them in coming here and at least try LOTRO. Many have found a new home.
While I have my fair share of issues with the system here (and the hobbit gifts slot machines are a big one) there is much, much worse out there. I feel a happy medium can be found. For the raiders, I can honestly say I have only done that for a bit, and did not have a good experience. I am only spitballing here, but more well thought out posts, with rational issues brought to the table, and less "design for us, so we can be more uber" may help. I know this is just a small percentage of raiders that act like this, but they do seem to drown out the more business-like of you.
Also, why care (not you personally) if I, as a casual player, can get good gear by grinding out Hytbold? After all, in lieu of raiding (something I do not have the time to do) I can get nice teal armor. That combined with my 2nd Age 85 weapons (with symbols from the Skirm vendor) and my teal jewelry (crafted) make me a good addition to my kin (and in no way diminish anyone's accomplishments) After all, at least to me, I worked just as hard rebuilding that town as a hard core raider did running raids.