I am in the same boat as you right now, only playing for an hour or so every night. RL is definitely allowed to be your #1 priority. You are definitely welcome. We do not have any participation reqs.

In regards to alts. We do allow recruits to have alts in other kins while they are testing the waters, however, to be promoted to a kinsman, the characters that you play (you can leave others in your old kin to check in once in a while) will need to be in the kin.

Our website is kinshipdunedain.net if you want to check us out. That is where we have our forums, guides, calendars, and commandments.