It was a small group of people that created a very big problem, and some of the rules were used as a tool to harass people. I can see clearly how and why relaxing rules was the fastest way to solve that problem. I am not saying that RP players didn't have any problems, just explaining newcomers' side of the story from my observations and experience. I know it was not easy for you guys as well. It is also clear that we do need a set of rules, and my hope is that we can meet half way on some of those rules, because the idea of having an ultimatum and being forced to move again pains me in such a way that words can hardly describe
I like to think we are decent and helpful people. Our was the smallest server, we know each others well. We enjoy every aspects of the game, we like to group and to help. After work, family, kids and other real life obligations, LOTRO is our place to have fun, relax, be with friends. We keep in touch outside of the game also, and some of us meet in real life as well. Our trolls and troublemakers left quite some time ago to bigger servers. And safe to say we don't want to see them again! But on another side, we just want to relax and enjoy the game, hopefully without disturbing anyone else. If we ever do, it's never on purpose. If we have to become any more careful than we are already, we can't talk of having enjoyment and relaxing time any longer. I think if most of us are willing and flexible enough, we could agree on most things, stay together, support each others. That is my hope at least.