It's funny you know...
At the beginning of this thread, I felt quite sympathetic to the OP; as unlikely as I knew it was, I genuinely hoped that something acceptable could be sorted out for them.
Every post they've made since, however, has swiftly and efficiently eroded that sympathy and altered their position from "bereft player missing their friends", to... well, to something distinctly less charitable.
They've posted responses that make it clear that they care far less about playing with their old friends and kin than they do about what is effectively their own spender's remorse, that their decision to change and leave their friends behind came not from a stronger need to move server, but because they were leaving anyway, and not expecting to come back. When they did come back, they decided to start up on a server that was not where all their friends were, based purely on the plan that that server would provide slightly better performance for them when the move was done, where they proceeded to buy their way back to cap quickly with RW currency, so that they cold spend all their game time mindlessly grinding marks - they chose to do this rather than come back and play with their friends, which their original post made quite a pronounced song and dance about.
The latest announcement about the data centre plans has led them to make another large leap of assumption - the assumption that the Amsterdam move is not happening at all: this has not been said in any way. All that's been said is what they have decided to work on right now, as immediate priority, and that that is not the move. Reading "Move isn't happening at all" from that is actually a pretty huge leap... as bad a leap as assuming it definitely would upon the first announcement. Maybe the move will never happen, but if they set down all the plans and preliminary expenditures for doing it, they're probably still going to eventually. Having made that second massive assumption, however, the OP is, nevertheless, in no worse a position than they were, except that by their own incautious decisions, they aren't with their friends on their advanced characters. They still have freedom to move their old characters, who are simply not current-content geared but are otherwise fully advanced, over to their friends' server, for free. The problem with doing that is that they'll then feel like they've absolutely wasted all the real money they poured into fast-raising their current characters.
All through this, they insist that it's 100% Turbine's fault for Making them give away all their things, start new characters on different servers, spend money on those characters and abandon their friends. They've also devoted effort to putting words in everyone else's mouths while they do so. Some examples:
"You're acknowledging that a lot of people are affected by this issue that is the direct consequence of your communication." -No he didn't, and no it isn't.
"Even if more people decided to request this service, it would definitely not be a mad rush." -Incongruity. You can't argue that not enough people would use it to be a strain, and also argue that it effects so many people that they're obliged to do something for it.
"I gave away my stuff because real life circumstances didn't allow me to lay LOTRO any more. It was only 6 months later that I returned and started on Evernight." -Incongruity. The OP worded it as though it was specifically the Amsterdam move announcement that led you to pack up and start on a new server.
"It was not my fault this happened. It is 100% Turbine's fault." - You had to leave the game for your own RL reasons. You decided to give away all of your things as a result. You came back six months later, and say the Amsterdam news, and decided to restart on an EU server. You decided to power-pay your new characters to get them to speed quickly, so that you could grind marks. You insist that you cannot possibly go back to your old character, even though they're sitting right there waiting for you. All decision you made, personally, yourself, with no-one from Turbine forcing your hand in any way.
"I didn't know about any such rules." -You should have. It's part of the rules you agreed to when you signed up. In agreeing to them you accepted responsibility for keeping them. Willful ignorance doesn't absolve you of that responsibility.
"I didn't demand anything. I asked for a comment." - You asked for special treatment and for a dedicated fix to be made, for you, for your own poor decisions and incautious choices. When you were told that such couldn't be done, you did not take it graciously, at all.
"I am asking for a simple thing." -No, you aren't.
"From here on out it's a matter of whether the players mean anything at all to them or not." -Empty hyperbole.
"I have said countless times I love this game. ... As it stands now, being met with complete rejection upfront, I will have no remorse leaving and not looking back. This battle is lost." -Incongruity. It doesn't actually sound like you care for the game as much as you say. You don't seem interested in going back to play with your friends and enjoy the game itself, and instead chose, upon your return, to auto-level somewhere new, so that you could spend all your in-game time grinding a single instance for marks. No remorse, despite talking in the first post about how much you miss your friends and kin-mates and how dearly you want to go back and play with them.
In short, they've behaved, in this thread, like a spoiled brat of a child who is incapable of taking responsibility for their own decisions, and in general acts in highly hypocritical way. I'd also note the hypocrisy of accusing myself and others of making assumptions about them when most comments were drawn entirely from exactly the things they'd already said... while they themself make galloping great assumptions about how easy the request they are making must surely be, and how little time it must surely take...
If they'd simply owned their own choices and asked for help, I'm quite sure they'd have found a good deal more sympathy, and possibly even offers of help from those located on their kin-mate's server... the forums might be largely toxic these days, but the in-game community is still very generous and helpful for the most part.
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