
Originally Posted by
Mar-Evayave
Which puts him, if true, far far FAR above some extremely vocal members of this community. If he's "short tempered" then they have no restraint left at all as far as their tempers are concerned.
I'm not naming particular members for one group or another group in terms of play style, but merely the play styles themselves. For example, PvMPers, raiders, soloers, casuals, hard-cores, etc. Which group seems to complain the most? Two of them, actually. PvMPers and raiders (and in this latter group would go not just those who do 12-mans and 24-mans, but also 3- and 6-mans as well; those players who look for end-game group content that is not "faceroll").
Whether they like the term or not, they have been labeled as the vocal minority. I don't see how anyone could dispute the "vocal" part. The part they refuse to accept is the "minority" part. And that is a stumbling block to them, and it is what causes a lot of flaming and disruption in otherwise normal conversations. They say, "everyone I know says..." or "just take a look at forum XYZ..." What they don't realize (whether intentionally or not) is that the number of members who use this forum is extremely low. Most people joined LOTRO so they can play a game. They don't care about any forum. All they want is to sit back and relax for a few hours with their friends. And unless they encounter a problem in game, what reason do they have to come here? We don't often see brand new members with no prior posts coming here to say, "oh my gosh I LOVE XYZ!!!" Usually when we get posts like that it is from members who have already posted on the forums before and who just want to share something they never noticed before. Usually when people come to the forums (when they otherwise might not) it is to complain about some bug they encountered and to get help fixing it.
In short, the amount of forum users is already a minority of the overall playerbase. And the amount of PvPers and raiders within that small group of forum users is even smaller. Like it or not, mock it all they want, those players are the minority -- and they are a very vocal minority at that. What's more is that they refuse to give up. And that's fine, but as the game continues on a path that leads away from what they want, they become more and more vocal and tempers start to flair and things get said that should never have been thought, much less said.
Very few members of those two groups approach the situation rationally. For example. Let's go up a few posts. Look at a few of them. Someone mentions a free-fall of the faceroll (dumbing down). As that member has only 2 posts, obviously he/she is not overly vocal on the forums. But that sentiment is widely shared among the PvPers and raiders. There was a whole thread about that very thing that went on for quite a while (and last I saw was still going on). Those are the standard response from members of those two groups. Compared to Post #311, which is extremely rational and polite.
Too many members of the PvMP and raiding groups are negatively vocal, turning normal convos into flame wars. They choose to do this. Maybe they think they won't be given any attention if they are calm and nice about it. A bit like a mob, really. Unfortunately, that mindset is what has gotten many of them in trouble and caused many others to be overlooked. I must say, I get tired of it. I see a new thread pop-up, I hover my cursor over the title to get a brief snapshot of the contents, I sigh and say to myself, "Oh, that argument again," and I skip over it. Sometimes even within that 2-liner snapshot, I get a glimpse of community guideline violations. If they can't even get past the first two lines without breaking some rule, I really don't want to read the rest of their post, and I can't imagine the staff members do either.
TL;DR
Who are you more likely to consider? The angry PvMPer/raider who is able to hold in his/her anger and give voice to his/her problems in a rational and polite manner? Or the angry PvMPer/raider who can't go more than a few words at a time without using words like "dumbing down," "faceroll," "EZmode," or "kindergarten"?
Frankly, there are often parts that are condemned with those descriptions that I (and many others) thoroughly enjoy, and let me tell you: we don't appreciate being considered dumb or in kindergarten. Our play styles differ, sure, that's okay with us. Maybe at times various things about the game are leaning in our favor. That doesn't mean that our play styles should be called dumb, faceroll, EZmode, etc. If we can accept their play styles and happily say, "sure, by all means let's see more of this!" why can't others do the same for us? We see people say, "Oh I love HD," and others who say, "Oh I hate HD", and the same for the class changes, the EBs, and a plethora of other topics. It doesn't mean one side is wrong and the other is right. They are just different. But why can't they all be different and yet remain polite and mature-minded at the same time?