At least up until three days ago, you were in violation of the standard even you now concede is in effect. Though I'd point out that it's odd that you accept that as a policy since it's just as absent from the EULA as what you claim isn't policy.
At their sole discretion they can make boxer/farming a violation just as they've made afk farming a violation.
LOL but they didn't. The standards of going to sleep while my pet is in aggressive mode until log off? That is how most LM's deeds/traits how is this a violation? I'm sure if i'm pressing any skills due to bots and macros that you clearly said I used is a clear violation of the terms of service.
I'm pretty certain GM's are smart and have to wait to see if you are pressing skill buttons and other macros, until the afk so you can get caught in the act with that macro/bot. Then ask for a reply.
Yes I did talk to a GM, no they didn't ban me because "i'm cheating and hoarding" gold. Next.